The Power of Habits in ActionIf 90 percent of my activity will always be habit, as
The Power of Focus says, then what habits do I want/need to set in place to achieve the results I want? This thinking makes a huge difference in getting results. Here are some things I have noticed that changed my thinking once I incorporated this reality:
- When I have setbacks, I don't tell myself what an undisciplined person I am or give up altogether in an attempt to seek perfection. I realize that my old habit is just still more ingrained than my new one. This will simply take more repetition of the new habit until the old is "erased."
- Once I get passed the typical three-to-four week period that establishes a habit, I will find the new habit harder to break. My "mental tug" will not be to the old behavior, but the new one.
- I created the old habit, and I can reprogram myself to follow the new one instead. For instance, has anyone just
loved wine at the first taste? How about cigarettes? These "habits" took
effort to become a way of life. Let's face it: these things taste awful and probably had nauseating effects at first. And yet, those who have these habits pushed passed the negative side effects in the beginning to establish a love and even a need for the behavior! Why can't anyone do the same for, say, a workout?
So my suggestion to you is to start taking an account of your current habits (not your current failures or lack of progress). Then insert the new habits needed to change your results. The bad habits you have in place feel "normal" because you have done them over and over. Changing your behavior for at least three to four weeks will feel
very odd, but so did the current habits during the first few weeks.
You can keep reading more advice like this on my website (
Work Stress Solutions.Com) or buy the book and have it on your desk to crack open whenever you need a boost (it's small):
101 Ways to Love Your Job on Amazon.
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