Your Currency is the Effect You Have On People...Jim Carrey Video

Many wonderful lessons shared here by Jim Carrey on leaving a legacy behind:

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A Hawaiian Practice That Brings Peace of Mind

Have you heard of the Hawaiian therapist who cured an entire ward of criminally insane patients, without ever meeting any of them or spending a moment in the same room? It’s not a joke. The therapist was Dr. Ihaleakala Hew Len. He reviewed each of the patients’ files, and then he healed them by healing himself. The amazing results seem like a miracle, but then miracles do happen when you use Ho’oponopono, or Dr. Len’s updated version called Self I-Dentity Through Ho’oponopono (SITH). I had the pleasure of attending one of his lectures a few years ago and started practicing Ho’oponopono immediately. The results are often astounding. Do you need a miracle?


What you might wish to understand is how this can possibly work. How can you heal yourself and have it heal others? How can you even heal yourself?


Why would it affect anything “out there”? The secret is there is no such thing as “out there” – everything happens to you in your mind. Everything you see, everything you hear, every person you meet, you experience in your mind. You only think it’s “out there” and you think that absolves you of responsibility. In fact it’s quite the opposite: you are responsible for everything you think, and everything that comes to your attention. If you watch the news, everything you hear on the news is your responsibility. That sounds harsh, but it means that you are also able to clear it, clean it, and through forgiveness change it.


There are four simple steps to this method, and the order is not that important. Repentance, Forgiveness, Gratitude and Love are the only forces at work – but these forces have amazing power.


The best part of the updated version of Ho’oponopono is you can do it yourself, you don’t need anyone else to be there, you don’t need anyone to hear you. You can “say” the words in your head. The power is in the feeling and in the willingness of the Universe to forgive and love.

Step 1: Repentance – I’M SORRY
As I mention above, you are responsible for everything in your mind, even if it seems to be “out there.” Once you realize that, it’s very natural to feel sorry. I know I sure do. If I hear of a tornado, I am so full of remorse that something in my consciousness has created that idea. I’m so very sorry that someone I know has a broken bone that I realize I have caused.


This realization can be painful, and you will likely resist accepting responsibility for the “out there” kind of problems until you start to practice this method on your more obvious “in here” problems and see results.

So choose something that you already know you’ve caused for yourself? Over-weight? Addicted to nicotine, alcohol or some other substance? Do you have anger issues? Health problems? Start there and say you’re sorry. That’s the whole step: I’M SORRY. Although I think it is more powerful if you say it more clearly: “I realize that I am responsible for the (issue) in my life and I feel terrible remorse that something in my consciousness has caused this.”


Step 2: Ask Forgiveness – PLEASE FORGIVE ME
Don’t worry about who you’re asking. Just ask! PLEASE FORGIVE ME. Say it over and over. Mean it. Remember your remorse from step 1 as you ask to be forgiven.


Step 3: Gratitude – THANK YOU
Say “THANK YOU” – again it doesn’t really matter who or what you’re thanking. Thank your body for all it does for you. Thank yourself for being the best you can be. Thank God. Thank the Universe. Thank whatever it was that just forgave you. Just keep saying THANK YOU.


Step 4: Love – I LOVE YOU
This can also be step 1. Say I LOVE YOU. Say it to your body, say it to God. Say I LOVE YOU to the air you breathe, to the house that shelters you. Say I LOVE YOU to your challenges. Say it over and over. Mean it. Feel it. There is nothing as powerful as Love.

That’s it. The whole practice in a nutshell. Simple and amazingly effective.








Article by dcole (http://www.laughteronlineuniversity.com/practice-hooponopono-four-simple-steps/)


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This Is What Happens to Your Body When You Don't Sleep Enough

This Is What Happens To Your Body When You Don’t Sleep Enough
(From the “Power of Positivity” website)

Sleep has been in the news a lot lately, because sleep deprivation is becoming an epidemic in our society. With one in three Americans starting each day in a sleep-deprived state, it’s no wonder it’s a topic of conversation.

When we sleep, we are more productive, healthier, and we feel better. Yet, we still find it difficult to squeeze everything we need to do into our day, and we end up staying up late or waking up early to get it all done.

The National Sleep Foundation released a revised sleep recommendation report getting specific about the amount of sleep required based on age.

The new recommendations are:
Older adults, 65+ years: 7-8 hours
Adults, 26-64 years: 7-9 hours
Young adults, 18-25 years: 7-9 hours
Teenagers, 14-17 years: 8-10 hours
School-age children, 6-13 years: 9-11 hours
Preschool children, 3-5 years: 10-13 hours
Toddlers, 1-2 years: 11-14 hours
Infants, 4-11 months: 12-15 hours
Newborns, 0-3 months: 14-17 hours

There are times when getting enough sleep isn’t an option, such as when an important report is due, someone is sick and needs care, or must-attend events are scheduled. So what happens to your body when you aren’t getting the recommended amount of sleep?

A team of Norwegian neuroscientists have set out to answer this question. After conducting observations of sleep-deprived groups in a controlled environment, they found that lack of sleep can change the white matter in our brains, and other studies have shown that it can interfere with our genes.
The good news is that our bodies are good at repairing themselves. When we get a good night’s sleep following a night of poor sleep, our bodies can repair the change in the brain’s white matter. But a chronic state of sleep deprivation can create long-term effects.

WHAT HAPPENS TO YOUR BODY WHEN YOU DON’T SLEEP ENOUGH

Our brains aren’t the only thing that suffers when we don’t sleep. Here are eight additional ways a lack of sleep can affect us.


1. WE GET SICK.
Studies show there is a direct relationship between sleep and our immune systems. When we are sleep-deprived, our bodies have a more difficult time fighting off illnesses.

2. WE HAVE A HARD TIME THINKING.
Experimental Brain Research published a study showing that a lack of sleep contributed to poor decision-making, diminished reasoning and problem-solving skills and slower reaction times when faced with specific tasks.

3. WE GAIN WEIGHT.
A three-year-long study of over 21,000 adults evaluated the relationship between sleep and weight. It found people who slept on average of fewer than five hours a night were not only more likely to gain weight but were also at risk of becoming obese.

4. WE PHYSICALLY AGE QUICKER.
A study of the sleep habits and skin condition of people between the ages of 30 and 50 found that those suffering from a lack of proper sleep saw the effects in their skin and were more likely to be unhappy with their appearance. They noticed more wrinkles, fine lines, age spots and a lack of elasticity in the skin.

5. WE HURT OUR HEART.
A lack of proper sleep can negatively impact the health of our heart. A recent analysis published in the European Heart Journal says, coronary heart disease and stroke risks increase when we aren’t sleeping.

6. WE ARE MORE AT RISK FOR CANCER.
The American Academy of Sleep Medicine released a statement connecting the lack of sleep with higher rates of certain types of cancers, including breast, prostate, and colorectal cancers. It also showed that people who slept longer than seven hours per night had the lowest mortality rates in the group.

7. WE HAVE LESS SEX.
The Journal of the American Medical Association published a study that found men getting less than five hours per night over a one-week period had lower testosterone levels than their proper-sleeping counterparts. Specifically, it reduced sex hormone levels by as much as 15 percent. Additionally, with each night of poor sleep their appetite for sex continued to decline.

8. WE EASILY FORGET THINGS.
Researchers have learned that our brain consolidates things when we sleep making it easier to recall. When we don’t sleep our brain can’t do its job, and our memory suffers.

Sleep isn’t just for looks or even to feel refreshed, although they are benefits to a proper night sleep. It’s no exaggeration to say proper sleep can save your life. Rethink your next binge-watching session on Netflix and choose a healthier, lights-out option instead.



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How to Control Your Mind

This video may have made my entire site obsolete. It's perfect. Please have a quick listen:


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How To STOP Negative/Stressful Thinking Once and For All.This is A Must See!!

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I'm Doing Everything I'm Supposed To Do...Why Am I Not Happy All the Time?

You can't be a loving force, you can't be spiritual or a higher vibration if you reject anything that is its opposite. Can you GROCK that? That holding this, "I am so mellow. I only hang with people who are nice and calm..." is a form of repression? Is holding BACK your vibration and growth?


I agree with Jed McKenna (author of "Spiritual Enlightenment: It's the Damnedest Thing") who says if you're being spiritual and practicing spirituality to feel good always...then you are a bliss junkie. You're nothing but an addict! He considers that morally GROSS. I honestly get and LOVE that he blew that lie open.

If you find that you can't TRULY enjoy happy times---you kinda feel it, but not like you imagined---and that you can't really feel PRESENT at things like getting married or having a child (it wasn't as powerful as you were told), that's because you RESIST and suffocate those feelings like sadness, anger, lust, etc.

You can't close off one spectrum without closing off the other.

Worried you might cry for three straight days if you let it all in? Worried you can't get off anti-depressants or you'll start throwing plates?

Well, cry for three days. Throw some fucking plates.

The type of people that can say that to you are the ones you need to seek out now. Stop going to spiritual satsangs and Unity Church and joining groups that give you fluffy bullshit advice like, "Always feel love and be positive..." They are merely uncomfortable with your REALNESS, your humanness. They haven't gone there yet. You're too true. You're scaring them with your courage.


If anyone has read about awakening/enlightenment and wonders why they haven't "gotten it" yet, it's for this reason: You gotta walk through a river of shit---willingly----and then you get the "reward." I put "reward" in quotes, because let me tell you right now: It is NOT eternal bliss. It is NOT.

Are you sure you want that? You may want to stay asleep. You may actually be HAPPIER more often, if you don't push your true nature.

And with this entry, I've decided to launch an entire blog on ANGER. Please click here to see the first entry.


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Work Stress Quiz - Check For Burnout

Burnout (now often called "Compassion Fatigue") occurs when passionate, committed people become deeply disillusioned with a job or career from which they have previously derived much of their identity and meaning. It comes as the things that inspire passion and enthusiasm are stripped away, and tedious or unpleasant things crowd in.





This tool can help you check yourself for burnout. It helps you look at the way you feel about your job and your experiences at work, so that you can get a feel for whether you are at risk of burnout.






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Color Your Stress Away?

This isn't the first time I've heard it, but it's the first time I've seen such compelling graphics. Coloring books for adults are being recommended as stress-busting tools. Apparently, the blood pressure is lowered as the two sides of the brain integrate.

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An article on the website Upworthy has more :


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Stress: It's Not Just In Your Head (Using EFT to Combat Stress)

By Dr. Mercola

Anxiety over a project at work… a marital spat… financial trouble… health problems… the list of potential stressors is endless, but wherever your stress is coming from, it likely starts in your head.

An inkling of worry might soon grow into an avalanche of anxiety. It might keep you up at night, your mind racing with potential “what ifs” and worst-case scenarios. Worse still, if the problem is ongoing, your stressed-out state may become your new normal -- extra stress hormones, inflammation, and all.

While beneficial if you’re actually in imminent danger, that heightened state of stress – the one that makes your survival more likely in the event of an attack, for instance – is damaging over time.

The thoughts in your head are only the beginning or, perhaps more aptly, are the wheels that set the harmful mechanism known as chronic stress into motion – and, once spinning, it’s very easy to spiral out of control. As reported in Science News:

“Stress research gained traction with a master stroke of health science called the Whitehall Study, in which British researchers showed that stressed workers were suffering ill effects.

Scientists have since described how a stressed brain triggers rampant hormone release, which leads to imbalanced immunity and long-term physical wear and tear.

Those effects take a toll quite apart from the anxiety and other psychological challenges that stressed individuals deal with day to day.”

Stress: It’s Not Just in Your Head

You know the saying “when it rains, it pours”? This is a good description of chronic stress in your body, because it makes virtually everything harder. The term psychological stress is, in fact, misleading, because no stress is solely psychological… it’s not all in your head.

Let’s say you lose your job or are struggling from post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) from abuse you suffered as a child. Excess stress hormones are released, including cortisol, epinephrine, and norepinephrine. Your stress response becomes imbalanced; it’s not shutting off.

Your immune system suffers as a result, and epigenetic changes are rapidly occurring. The stress is triggering systemic low-grade inflammation, and suddenly your blood pressure is up, your asthma is flaring, and you keep getting colds.

That cut on your leg just doesn’t seem to want to heal, and your skin is a mess. You’re having trouble sleeping and, on an emotional level, you feel like you’re nearing burnout.

Stress is very much like a snowball rolling down a mountain, gaining momentum, gaining speed and growing until suddenly it crashes. That crash, unfortunately, is often at the expense of your health.

Stress Increases Heart Attack Risk by 21-Fold

Police officers clearly face amplified stress on the job, and researchers found they were 21 times more likely to die of a heart attack during an altercation than during routine activities.2 This isn’t entirely surprising until you compare it to heart-attack risk during physical training, which increased only seven fold.

The difference in physical exertion between the two circumstances likely doesn’t account for the increased risk… it’s the level of stress being experienced that sends heart attack risk through the roof.

More heart attacks and other cardiovascular events also occur on Mondays than any other day of the week.3 This “Monday cardiac phenomenon” has been recognized for some time, and has long been believed to be related to work stress.

During moments of high stress, your body releases hormones such as norepinephrine, which the researchers believe can cause the dispersal of bacterial biofilms from the walls of your arteries.4 This dispersal can allow plaque deposits to suddenly break loose, thereby triggering a heart attack.

Stress contributes to heart disease in other ways as well. Besides norepinephrine, your body also releases other stress hormones that prepare your body to either fight or flee. One such stress hormone is cortisol.

When stress becomes chronic, your immune system becomes increasingly desensitized to cortisol, and since inflammation is partly regulated by this hormone, this decreased sensitivity heightens the inflammatory response and allows inflammation to get out of control.5 Chronic inflammation is a hallmark not only of heart disease but many chronic diseases.

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The Essential Guide to Happiness at Work

I'm not sure why Rashida Jones is writing this, except for her role in the sitcom, "The Office," but it's pretty good.

There are four components:

1. Sharpen your mind
2. Optimize your space
3. Upgrade your tools
4. Master your relationships

There are videos as well, and it seems pretty practical and upbeat. Here's a segment from the site (Wired.Com).

One thing does help. I try to remind myself that happiness is not the endgame. If your happiness depends on selling your company, snagging one perfect job, finishing the design for your perfect living room, you’ll never actually achieve it. And now that work and life have merged together, it’s doubly important to remember that you deserve to be happy all the time. Luckily, there are techniques and tools that can help you achieve this total world domination—or at least a smooth day at the office.


This is a online magazine from Wired. Com.

Anyway, I thought I'd pass it along.

The Essential Guide to Happiness at Work



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Habits Create Your Life. How to Break The Ones You Don't Want.

From Martha Beck:

If you have a self-destructive pattern in your life, say an addiction or a repetitive thought or procrastination or having the same argument over and over again with the same person.


The important thing is to step back and say, I am going to give myself a space of time to work on this habit.


It’s not something that you can go cold turkey on, generally. So it’s almost like waging some sort of campaign where you gradually are going to defeat this pattern or change it to a different pattern.


And the first thing you want to do is to alter one thing in the course of your habitual patterns.


So for example, there’s a therapist who tells couples who argue a lot – you can have this argument, you can have this argument about money again, you can have it any time you want.


But every time you have it from now on you have to be wearing hats. And so when a couple will start, have an argument and they’ll have to go put on these hats.


The disruption of the pattern breaks some of the sequencing in the neural patterns that have become associated with this havoc and right there you get a disruption that causes a little bit of daylight to come into the habit so that it starts to break up right there.


The second thing I want people to do is if you have a habit and you smoke a cigarette again, or you overeat again, what you want to do is don’t beat up on yourself because it happened again.


Instead, stop and mentally review everything that was happening that led up to the habitual pattern.


There’s a point where you sort of go on auto pilot and that’s where you want to find out where that happened and what triggered it and it will always be something.


It’s almost always some stressor, right? Fatigue, fear, scary news story, bad traffic – anything.


So what you want to do then is after the habit has already taken place you go back to the thing that triggered it and you calm yourself retroactively.

You say to the person stuck in traffic, you know what, a cigarette really isn’t going to help this as much as turning on the radio and singing your favorite song.


Not cruelly, very kindly say, no, no, no, next time we are going to think about other alternatives.


And the next time it happens and it will happen again, you will find that you catch yourself a little bit sooner.


Then there will come a time when you are actually in the middle of your pattern and you are aware right then, oh my goodness, I am doing it again, but you are not quite able to stop the pattern yet.


Shortly after that there will come a point where you’d go in to the pattern and your consciousness breaks through and says, I am not going here. I am not going here again, that’s all that is to it.


So by breaking up the pattern with doing one new thing and then by addressing the triggers each and every time the pattern takes place you can gradually completely overcome your negative destructive habits.



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About Martha Beck:
Martha Beck, Ph.D., is a writer and life coach who specializes in helping people design satisfying and meaningful life experiences. She holds a bachelor's degree in East Asian Studies and master's and Ph.D. degrees in sociology, all from Harvard University. She has published academic books and articles on a variety of social science and business topics.

Her non-academic books include the New York Times bestsellers “Expecting Adam” and “Leaving the Saints,” as well as “Finding Your Own North Star: Claiming the Life You Were Meant to Live” and her newest book, “Steering by Starlight.” Dr. Beck has also been a contributing editor for many popular magazines, including Real Simple and Redbook, and is currently a columnist for O, the Oprah Magazine.



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