Wednesday, April 27, 2016

Laughter: Work Stress Will Melt Away


"My only commandment is laughter!.... And everything else will follow. If you can love and if you can laugh, totally, wholeheartedly, your life will become such a bliss and a benediction, not only to yourself but to everyone else."<br>
~OSHO





I remember distinctly at about age 16, I decided: I'm going to be funny. I liked it when people made me laugh, and I wanted to make others laugh. And dammit---I did it. I've heard that "funny" is like having a musical ear, you either have it or you don't. And maybe that's true. I've definitely met people who wanted to be funny or tried to be funny and it was a really painful thing to watch.

I am really glad that I can make people laugh. I think there is something magical in laughter. There are programs out there like "FISH!" that play on this concept in the workplace. And having a funny quote or picture in the office definitely puts things in perspective. I recommend that you try to cultivate this quality, however. See if you can start to play with your wit and have a little more fun (and laughter) at work.


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Thursday, April 21, 2016

Don't Make Me Your Distraction of Choice


Some of my best moments have been in front of a screen. Whether that's a TV or a movie or a computer doesn't matter. And to properly level this premise: some of the worst times I have had in my life were face to face.





This post is calling out those people who proclaim that watching TV or typing on Facebook or texting your mother is inferior to "the real thing." Because that can't be quantified. And it's an argument that feels like bullying. Introverts prefer a little space, a little distance; while all the extroverts I know report that the last thing they want is for their thoughts and feelings well-up and meet them. They'd do anything to avoid that.

So, I'm on a campaign to stop this harassment. Because that's what it is: a call to make people interact with you now and here and often or else be shamed because you don't want to hear your own thoughts and insist that I be your chosen "screen" of distraction.

Well, I am not your distraction-du'jour. If you can't sit with yourself for ten minutes and see the mess that you are and answer that call, I can't help you. You are CHEATING. And you should work at sitting in your swirly-world of unrest until it settles. Because that's just sane.


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Monday, February 15, 2016

The Most Rapid and Direct Means to Ending Stress (By Ending Stressful Thinking)

If you are REALLY up for the answer to ending your stress...then you've just found it (and it's free).





You do NOT have to create a DropBox account to read this book (see small type that says, "No Thanks" below registration).

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Thursday, February 11, 2016

Stress and The Brain (Video)

If you like Ted Talks, you'll really like Ted-Ed. They have a Facebook page, so you can see regular entries like this one:









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Friday, January 15, 2016

Your Currency is the Effect You Have On People...Jim Carrey Video

Many wonderful lessons shared here by Jim Carrey on leaving a legacy behind:




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Saturday, December 19, 2015

A Hawaiian Practice That Brings Peace of Mind

Have you heard of the Hawaiian therapist who cured an entire ward of criminally insane patients, without ever meeting any of them or spending a moment in the same room? It’s not a joke. The therapist was Dr. Ihaleakala Hew Len. He reviewed each of the patients’ files, and then he healed them by healing himself. The amazing results seem like a miracle, but then miracles do happen when you use Ho’oponopono, or Dr. Len’s updated version called Self I-Dentity Through Ho’oponopono (SITH). I had the pleasure of attending one of his lectures a few years ago and started practicing Ho’oponopono immediately. The results are often astounding. Do you need a miracle?


What you might wish to understand is how this can possibly work. How can you heal yourself and have it heal others? How can you even heal yourself?


Why would it affect anything “out there”? The secret is there is no such thing as “out there” – everything happens to you in your mind. Everything you see, everything you hear, every person you meet, you experience in your mind. You only think it’s “out there” and you think that absolves you of responsibility. In fact it’s quite the opposite: you are responsible for everything you think, and everything that comes to your attention. If you watch the news, everything you hear on the news is your responsibility. That sounds harsh, but it means that you are also able to clear it, clean it, and through forgiveness change it.


There are four simple steps to this method, and the order is not that important. Repentance, Forgiveness, Gratitude and Love are the only forces at work – but these forces have amazing power.


The best part of the updated version of Ho’oponopono is you can do it yourself, you don’t need anyone else to be there, you don’t need anyone to hear you. You can “say” the words in your head. The power is in the feeling and in the willingness of the Universe to forgive and love.

Step 1: Repentance – I’M SORRY
As I mention above, you are responsible for everything in your mind, even if it seems to be “out there.” Once you realize that, it’s very natural to feel sorry. I know I sure do. If I hear of a tornado, I am so full of remorse that something in my consciousness has created that idea. I’m so very sorry that someone I know has a broken bone that I realize I have caused.


This realization can be painful, and you will likely resist accepting responsibility for the “out there” kind of problems until you start to practice this method on your more obvious “in here” problems and see results.

So choose something that you already know you’ve caused for yourself? Over-weight? Addicted to nicotine, alcohol or some other substance? Do you have anger issues? Health problems? Start there and say you’re sorry. That’s the whole step: I’M SORRY. Although I think it is more powerful if you say it more clearly: “I realize that I am responsible for the (issue) in my life and I feel terrible remorse that something in my consciousness has caused this.”


Step 2: Ask Forgiveness – PLEASE FORGIVE ME
Don’t worry about who you’re asking. Just ask! PLEASE FORGIVE ME. Say it over and over. Mean it. Remember your remorse from step 1 as you ask to be forgiven.


Step 3: Gratitude – THANK YOU
Say “THANK YOU” – again it doesn’t really matter who or what you’re thanking. Thank your body for all it does for you. Thank yourself for being the best you can be. Thank God. Thank the Universe. Thank whatever it was that just forgave you. Just keep saying THANK YOU.


Step 4: Love – I LOVE YOU
This can also be step 1. Say I LOVE YOU. Say it to your body, say it to God. Say I LOVE YOU to the air you breathe, to the house that shelters you. Say I LOVE YOU to your challenges. Say it over and over. Mean it. Feel it. There is nothing as powerful as Love.

That’s it. The whole practice in a nutshell. Simple and amazingly effective.








Article by dcole (http://www.laughteronlineuniversity.com/practice-hooponopono-four-simple-steps/)


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Monday, November 16, 2015

This Is What Happens to Your Body When You Don't Sleep Enough


This Is What Happens To Your Body When You Don’t Sleep Enough
(From the “Power of Positivity” website)






Sleep has been in the news a lot lately, because sleep deprivation is becoming an epidemic in our society. With one in three Americans starting each day in a sleep-deprived state, it’s no wonder it’s a topic of conversation.

When we sleep, we are more productive, healthier, and we feel better. Yet, we still find it difficult to squeeze everything we need to do into our day, and we end up staying up late or waking up early to get it all done.

The National Sleep Foundation released a revised sleep recommendation report getting specific about the amount of sleep required based on age.

The new recommendations are:
Older adults, 65+ years: 7-8 hours
Adults, 26-64 years: 7-9 hours
Young adults, 18-25 years: 7-9 hours
Teenagers, 14-17 years: 8-10 hours
School-age children, 6-13 years: 9-11 hours
Preschool children, 3-5 years: 10-13 hours
Toddlers, 1-2 years: 11-14 hours
Infants, 4-11 months: 12-15 hours
Newborns, 0-3 months: 14-17 hours

There are times when getting enough sleep isn’t an option, such as when an important report is due, someone is sick and needs care, or must-attend events are scheduled. So what happens to your body when you aren’t getting the recommended amount of sleep?

A team of Norwegian neuroscientists have set out to answer this question. After conducting observations of sleep-deprived groups in a controlled environment, they found that lack of sleep can change the white matter in our brains, and other studies have shown that it can interfere with our genes.
The good news is that our bodies are good at repairing themselves. When we get a good night’s sleep following a night of poor sleep, our bodies can repair the change in the brain’s white matter. But a chronic state of sleep deprivation can create long-term effects.

WHAT HAPPENS TO YOUR BODY WHEN YOU DON’T SLEEP ENOUGH

Our brains aren’t the only thing that suffers when we don’t sleep. Here are eight additional ways a lack of sleep can affect us.


1. WE GET SICK.
Studies show there is a direct relationship between sleep and our immune systems. When we are sleep-deprived, our bodies have a more difficult time fighting off illnesses.

2. WE HAVE A HARD TIME THINKING.
Experimental Brain Research published a study showing that a lack of sleep contributed to poor decision-making, diminished reasoning and problem-solving skills and slower reaction times when faced with specific tasks.

3. WE GAIN WEIGHT.
A three-year-long study of over 21,000 adults evaluated the relationship between sleep and weight. It found people who slept on average of fewer than five hours a night were not only more likely to gain weight but were also at risk of becoming obese.

4. WE PHYSICALLY AGE QUICKER.
A study of the sleep habits and skin condition of people between the ages of 30 and 50 found that those suffering from a lack of proper sleep saw the effects in their skin and were more likely to be unhappy with their appearance. They noticed more wrinkles, fine lines, age spots and a lack of elasticity in the skin.

5. WE HURT OUR HEART.
A lack of proper sleep can negatively impact the health of our heart. A recent analysis published in the European Heart Journal says, coronary heart disease and stroke risks increase when we aren’t sleeping.

6. WE ARE MORE AT RISK FOR CANCER.
The American Academy of Sleep Medicine released a statement connecting the lack of sleep with higher rates of certain types of cancers, including breast, prostate, and colorectal cancers. It also showed that people who slept longer than seven hours per night had the lowest mortality rates in the group.

7. WE HAVE LESS SEX.
The Journal of the American Medical Association published a study that found men getting less than five hours per night over a one-week period had lower testosterone levels than their proper-sleeping counterparts. Specifically, it reduced sex hormone levels by as much as 15 percent. Additionally, with each night of poor sleep their appetite for sex continued to decline.

8. WE EASILY FORGET THINGS.
Researchers have learned that our brain consolidates things when we sleep making it easier to recall. When we don’t sleep our brain can’t do its job, and our memory suffers.

Sleep isn’t just for looks or even to feel refreshed, although they are benefits to a proper night sleep. It’s no exaggeration to say proper sleep can save your life. Rethink your next binge-watching session on Netflix and choose a healthier, lights-out option instead.



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Tuesday, October 27, 2015

How to Control Your Mind

This video may have made my entire site obsolete. It's perfect. Please have a quick listen:


Video on Facebook


How To STOP Negative/Stressful Thinking Once and For All.This is A Must See!!

Posted by Prince Ea on Monday, October 26, 2015


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Thursday, August 20, 2015

I'm Doing Everything I'm Supposed To Do...Why Am I Not Happy All the Time?

You can't be a loving force, you can't be spiritual or a higher vibration if you reject anything that is its opposite. Can you GROCK that? That holding this, "I am so mellow. I only hang with people who are nice and calm..." is a form of repression? Is holding BACK your vibration and growth?


I agree with Jed McKenna (author of "Spiritual Enlightenment: It's the Damnedest Thing") who says if you're being spiritual and practicing spirituality to feel good always...then you are a bliss junkie. You're nothing but an addict! He considers that morally GROSS. I honestly get and LOVE that he blew that lie open.




If you find that you can't TRULY enjoy happy times---you kinda feel it, but not like you imagined---and that you can't really feel PRESENT at things like getting married or having a child (it wasn't as powerful as you were told), that's because you RESIST and suffocate those feelings like sadness, anger, lust, etc.

You can't close off one spectrum without closing off the other.

Worried you might cry for three straight days if you let it all in? Worried you can't get off anti-depressants or you'll start throwing plates?

Well, cry for three days. Throw some fucking plates.

The type of people that can say that to you are the ones you need to seek out now. Stop going to spiritual satsangs and Unity Church and joining groups that give you fluffy bullshit advice like, "Always feel love and be positive..." They are merely uncomfortable with your REALNESS, your humanness. They haven't gone there yet. You're too true. You're scaring them with your courage.


If anyone has read about awakening/enlightenment and wonders why they haven't "gotten it" yet, it's for this reason: You gotta walk through a river of shit---willingly----and then you get the "reward." I put "reward" in quotes, because let me tell you right now: It is NOT eternal bliss. It is NOT.

Are you sure you want that? You may want to stay asleep. You may actually be HAPPIER more often, if you don't push your true nature.

And with this entry, I've decided to launch an entire blog on ANGER. Please click here to see the first entry.


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Monday, August 10, 2015

Work Stress Quiz - Check For Burnout




Burnout (now often called "Compassion Fatigue") occurs when passionate, committed people become deeply disillusioned with a job or career from which they have previously derived much of their identity and meaning. It comes as the things that inspire passion and enthusiasm are stripped away, and tedious or unpleasant things crowd in.





This tool can help you check yourself for burnout. It helps you look at the way you feel about your job and your experiences at work, so that you can get a feel for whether you are at risk of burnout.






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