"Constructive criticism" is a scam run by people who want to beat you up. And they want you to believe it is for your own good."
That's from a book by Cheri Huber called, "There is Nothing Wrong with You". I STRONGLY urge you to purchase a copy.
More:
"If you had a person in your life treating you the way you treat yourself, you would have gotten rid of them a long time ago."
Seem like too much trouble? To buy the book and read it? You'd rather just read snippets HERE and move onto something else that's easy? Hmmmmm. That sounds like a plan for KEEPING the notion in place that there is something wrong with you. I don't want that for you, and I don't want that for me.
So maybe this (from Cheri's book) will resonate:
"Self-hate uses self-improvement as self-maintenance. As long as you are concerned about improving yourself, you'll always have a self to improve. And you will always suffer."
I have no link for you to click on. I'm not selling Cheri Huber books. I'm selling peace (except it's free, so I tend to just fall on the "pro" side of the issue :) You know how to purchase a book. Go to that place/site and do this for yourself.
See Stephanie's site Work Stress Solutions for more information like this.
This blog's intent is to show you how to love your job. A job that is loved will change the world---regardless of title, salary or social status.
Showing posts with label self hate. Show all posts
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Monday, June 13, 2011
Constructive Criticism is a Scam
Labels:
peace,
self esteem,
self hate
Stephanie Goddard is considered a subject matter expert in workplace communications and specializes in leadership and interpersonal skills training and work stress coaching.
Stephanie's first book '101 Ways to Have a Great Day at Work' has been an Amazon 'business-bestseller'; a SHRM bestseller; and has been translated into 15 languages. "101 Ways to Love Your Job" is her second book with Sourcebooks Publishing.
"Whatever You Are, Be A Good One: A Guide to Workplace Effectiveness," is her latest work (also on Amazon in Kindle and paperback).
See her website for articles, quotes, worksheets and more : Work-Stress-Solutions.Com
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